Follow-up to #37937. That fix guarded the composer's keyup with
`shouldSkipTriggerRefreshOnKeyUp(key, trigger !== null)`. The `trigger !== null`
check is timing-fragile for Escape: Escape's *keydown* sets `trigger = null`
and closes the menu, but in a real browser the *keyup* fires after a re-render,
so the handler closure sees `trigger === null`, the guard returns false,
`refreshTrigger` runs, re-detects the still-present `/` in the input, and
instantly reopens the menu. (jsdom batches state synchronously so a unit test
could not observe this -- only the running app does.)
Replace the value-based guard with a `triggerKeyConsumedRef` set synchronously
in keydown whenever the open popover consumes a nav/control key
(Arrow/Enter/Tab/Escape). keyup consults and clears that ref, so it is immune
to the keydown->re-render->keyup timing. Applied to both the main composer
(chat/composer/index.tsx) and the message-edit composer
(assistant-ui/thread.tsx).
Removes the now-unused `shouldSkipTriggerRefreshOnKeyUp` helper and its unit
test. The real-DOM regression test now fires keydown+keyup pairs through the
ref-based handlers and asserts Esc closes and stays closed.
Verified by running a production renderer build (Vite v8) under Electron
against a local backend: ArrowDown/ArrowUp cycle the full list and Esc
dismisses the menu without reopening.